Creating a tea party menu is about balancing tradition with creativity and offering a delightful progression of flavors that pairs beautifully with your chosen teas.
A thoughtful menu sets the tone for your event—an elegant afternoon affair, a casual garden tea, or a festive holiday gathering.
Here’s what a successful tea party menu typically includes:
- A variety of tea sandwiches and savory bites for the first course
- Freshly baked scones served with clotted cream, jam, or curd
- An assortment of sweets and pastries for the final, indulgent course
- Well-paired teas that match the flavor profile of each course
- Seasonal touches to reflect the time of year and your theme
This guide will help you plan each part of the menu, offer pairing ideas, and give hosting tips so that your tea party will be charming, delicious, and memorable!

The Three-Tiered Stand: Classic Course Structure
No traditional afternoon tea is complete without the graceful presence of a three-tiered stand.
It’s more than just an elegant centerpiece—it reflects the deliberate pacing and balance of the tea experience. Each tier is thoughtfully arranged to guide guests through a harmonious progression of flavors, textures, and presentation.
The order of the tiers typically goes like this:
- Bottom Tier – Savories & Sandwiches: Start with a variety of light, flavorful savory bites. These are usually finger sandwiches or small pastry-based nibbles designed to whet the appetite without overwhelming the palate.
- Middle Tier – Scones with Spreads: This is the heart of the tea party menu. Freshly baked scones, served warm, are paired with rich clotted cream, fruity jams, and lemon curd. It’s a comforting and slightly indulgent bridge between savory and sweet.
- Top Tier – Sweets & Desserts: The final tier is reserved for confections—bite-sized pastries, cakes, shortbread, or petit fours. These add a delicate, celebratory note to the end of the tea.

Why use a tiered stand?
- Helps with visual presentation and space-saving
- Organizes the courses in the traditional tea order
- Encourages guests to enjoy the menu in a progressive way
While this structure is classic, don’t hesitate to adjust it to your event—just keep the progression from savory to sweet, and you’ll maintain the spirit of afternoon tea.
Tea Sandwiches & Savory Bites
The savory course sets the tone for your entire tea party. These small, elegant bites are meant to be flavorful yet light, easy to eat without utensils, and beautifully presented.
Traditional tea sandwiches are crustless and neatly cut, but you can introduce modern variations while maintaining that refined feel.

Popular savory options include:
- Cucumber & Cream Cheese – A crisp and cooling classic, often enhanced with dill or chives.
- Smoked Salmon with Dill or Crème Fraîche – Elegant and flavorful, especially on rye or pumpernickel.
- Egg Salad with Watercress – Creamy, comforting, and lightly peppery; a traditional British favorite.
- Chicken Salad Mini Croissants – Rich and satisfying with optional grapes or nuts for texture.
- Mini Quiches or Savory Tartlets – Baked options like spinach & cheese or mushroom quiche are perfect for variety.
You can find recipes for the tea sandwiches here: Tea Party Sandwich Recipes
Tips for crafting the perfect savory tier:
- Cut sandwiches into fingers, triangles, or rounds
- Use soft, thinly sliced bread
- Aim for variety in color, texture, and fillings
- Avoid overly wet or messy ingredients
Balance is key. Offer 3–4 savory options per guest and keep the flavors light yet satisfying, making sure there’s something for everyone—including a vegetarian option if needed.
Scones, Spreads & Bakes
The second course in a traditional tea party—and often the most beloved—is the scone course.
Served on the middle tier of the stand, scones are warm, soft-centered, and slightly crumbly with a golden top. They’re simple but deeply satisfying, especially when served with the right accompaniments.

Essentials for the scone course:
- Freshly baked scones – plain, fruit-studded (like currant or cranberry), or lightly spiced
- Clotted cream – thick, rich, and indulgent; a non-negotiable classic
- Jam – traditionally strawberry or raspberry, but apricot or fig are lovely too
- Lemon curd – tart and buttery, a bright contrast to cream
You can find the recipes here: Tea Party Food Recipes
Optional scone flavors:
- Blueberry lemon
- Cinnamon raisin
- Orange and poppy seed
Serving tips:
- Scones should be warm but not hot
- Split them horizontally (never cut with a knife!)
- Let guests assemble: place cream first, then jam—or the reverse, depending on whether you follow the Devon or Cornwall method!
Include 1–2 types of scones to give variety, especially if one is plain and one is flavored.
Elegant Desserts & Sweet Treats
The final course is where your creativity can truly shine!
This is your chance to present a beautiful selection of bite-sized sweets—delicate in flavor, dainty in size, and delightful to look at. The goal is not richness, but refinement.

Classic sweets to consider:
- Mini fruit tarts – crisp shells filled with pastry cream and topped with fresh berries
- Petit fours – layered sponge cakes covered in fondant or glaze
- Shortbread cookies – buttery, crumbly, and perfect with black tea
- Mini cupcakes or madeleines – light and elegant, with simple frosting or glaze
- Chocolate-dipped strawberries – romantic and fresh, great for spring or summer parties
You can find the recipes here: Tea Party Food Recipes
Tips for dessert tier success:
- Offer a variety of flavors (fruity, creamy, chocolatey)
- Stick to small, finger-friendly sizes
- Include one or two flourless or gluten-free options if possible
This final course is all about delight and indulgence in moderation. Aim for 3–4 mini sweets per guest, and you’ll finish your tea party on the perfect note.
Tea & Food Pairing Menu Ideas
Now that the food is beautifully planned, it’s time to choose the perfect teas to serve alongside each course.
A successful tea party doesn’t just serve tea—it serves the right tea for each moment, complementing the flavors of the food and the mood of the event.

Here’s a classic pairing guide for a three-course menu:
- Savory Course – Black or Oolong Teas:
- Darjeeling or Ceylon pairs wonderfully with tea sandwiches
- Earl Grey enhances smoked salmon or herbed fillings
- Light oolong complements vegetable or egg-based bites
- Scone Course – Green or Spiced Teas:
- Jasmine green tea lifts the richness of scones and cream
- Masala chai adds a cozy warmth to cinnamon or fruit scones
- Genmaicha (roasted rice green tea) offers a toasty contrast
- Sweet Course – Herbal or Floral Teas:
- Chamomile, lavender, or hibiscus for a gentle finish
- Rose tea pairs beautifully with vanilla or berry desserts
- Peppermint tea provides a refreshing cleanse after sweets
Tips for serving tea:
- Brew each tea fresh and keep in labeled teapots
- Offer lemon, honey, sugar, and milk on the side
- Avoid oversteeping—bitterness can overpower delicate flavors
For themed or seasonal parties, you can also create a custom tea menu, such as:
- Spring: white tea with rose petals
- Summer: peach iced tea or hibiscus lemonade
- Autumn: cinnamon spice black tea
- Winter: orange clove rooibos or mulled wine tea
Games & Activities (Including Crafts)
A tea party isn’t just about food and drink—it’s about creating an enjoyable, memorable experience.

Including light games or hands-on crafts adds a playful or interactive element to your event and gives guests more ways to connect.
Elegant tea party game ideas:
- Tea trivia – fun facts about tea history and varieties
- Guess the tea – blind taste different brews and guess the type
- Napkin-folding challenge – teach a few fancy folds and let guests try
- “Who Am I?” teacup game – tape a famous character name under each cup and guess with yes/no questions
Craft activities to include:
- DIY floral teacup arrangements – small flowers in vintage cups
- Decorate your own teabag envelope – great for gifting
- Make-your-own sugar cubes – using molds and edible flowers
- Pressed flower bookmarks – elegant, seasonal keepsake
Offer 1–2 structured activities, or keep craft supplies available for guests to enjoy casually between courses.
Party Favors to Charm Your Guests
A thoughtful party favor is a lovely way to thank your guests and leave a lasting impression. For tea parties, favors don’t have to be extravagant—just sweet, useful, or beautifully themed.

Charming tea party favor ideas:
- Mini jars of local honey – tie with ribbon and a tiny wooden dipper
- Loose-leaf tea sachets – homemade blends or a favorite classic, in cute envelopes
- Vintage teaspoons or tea infusers – both practical and keepsake-worthy
- Decorated sugar cubes or tea cookies – easy to make ahead and personalize
- Pressed flower bookmarks – elegant and perfect for garden-themed events
Presentation tips:
- Use pastel or floral packaging that matches your table décor
- Add handwritten name tags or short thank-you notes
- Display favors near the exit or at each place setting
Tea party favors aren’t just a nice touch—they help extend the experience beyond the last cup of tea.
Final Thoughts: Hosting with Grace and Joy
Hosting a tea party is a beautiful blend of tradition, creativity, and hospitality.
By planning a well-balanced menu, pairing your teas thoughtfully, adding a few charming touches, and including some lighthearted fun, you create more than just an event—you create a memory.
So brew with love, plate with care, and enjoy the laughter and conversation that flows as easily as the tea.
Happy hosting!



